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Human-driven, AI-assisted matchmaking

NexSpark is matchmaking for people who want a serious relationship, not another swipe deck. Here’s exactly how it works, from your first answers to meeting someone who genuinely fits.

1. Answer a few honest questions

Instead of writing a profile, you answer a set of questions about your personality, values, everyday life, how you connect, and a few dealbreakers. This is your profile, and it’s free. The truer your answers, the better everything that follows works. You can do it without creating an account and only sign up when you want to save your result.

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✦ Reveal your ideal match the moment you finish

The basicsWhat you believeMoneyDaily lifeHow you connectYour natureHow you bond

You are…

A woman

A man

Non-binary

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2. Get your result

You’ll get your relationship archetype: a read on how you tend to bond and what you’re really looking for. It’s a reflection of your answers, not a box, people are always more than a type. A few optional follow-up questions sharpen it and make your matches more accurate.

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YOU’RE The Hearth, YOUR IDEAL MATCH IS

The Captain

A decisive, present partner who earns your trust steadily and makes coming home feel intentional.

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3. We match you, carefully

There’s no endless feed. Introductions are curated on genuine compatibility, shared values, complementary temperaments, attachment styles that actually fit, and on being close enough to realistically meet. Distance is mutual: we only introduce people who are within each other’s range, which is why we ask for your ZIP code (it’s never shown to anyone).

4. Review an introduction

When there’s a match, you can read why we paired you and see the other person’s report before deciding anything. If you both want to connect, we help you take the next step, at your pace.

5. Meet on a video date

An optional short intro video lets a match see the real you first; every one is reviewed before it’s shown. When you’re both ready, you can meet on a built-in video date, no phone numbers exchanged until you choose to.

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Your intro video

A short hello (about 30–45 seconds), optional but encouraged. It only shows to a match after you’ve both said yes, and our team reviews it first.

Stay anonymous — don’t say your name or share anything that could identify you.

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6. Keep it up to date

Your profile is a living thing. Once you’re signed in you can review or edit any answer, and update your home location if you move, all from your profile. Your matches update to reflect the changes.

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Home location

Moved? Update your ZIP code so we match you with people near you.

30301

✓ Atlanta, GA

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7. Your privacy

You’re known only by an alias until you choose to share more. Your answers, your report, and your location are private to you and used only to find good matches. You can pause matching or permanently delete your account and data at any time. See our Privacy Policy and Safety & Screening Disclosure for the details.

Getting help

Questions, or something not working? Email hello@nexspark.com, we read every note. You can also browse our archetypes, relationship styles, and the Journal.

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